mercoledì 1 febbraio 2012

Taking time to love

My exam schedule no longer seemed so daunting
Once a week, I volunteer at a nursing home. It has become not just an extracurricular activity, but a commitment I have grown to love and enjoy. 
This particular visit took place a few days before the start of my exams. I had five exams in five days, and I knew that time management would be vital to succeeding. However, even though my schoolwork is very important to me, balancing my other commitments is just as important. 
On my way into the nursing home, I happened to pass by the room of a lady I knew, and her door was open.  Without hesitation, I greeted her. She welcomed me into her room and started sharing her experiences and her photo album.
After ten minutes, I realized it was time for Mass there. I usually bring the seniors down from their rooms to the chapel for Mass. I had noticed that on several occasions this lady had left in the middle, looking very confused and out of place. Recently I noticed that she does not go to Mass anymore. I told her that I would return after Mass.

But then, even though I doubted she would be interested, I took the moment to ask if she wanted to come. She agreed if I would assure her of my company, which I did. Throughout Mass, I really placed myself in her shoes and tried to guide her along. Unlike all the other times, she remained with us the whole time. 
Afterwards, my plan was to return home right away to continue studying for my hectic schedule of exams. However, something about my experience with this lady reminded me that we should love our neighbours with all our heart, mind and soul. Loving my neighbor wholeheartedly meant keeping my new friend company as she wanted to continue sharing her pictures and experiences. Before I left, she thanked me with a great big hug.  I was filled with an indescribable joy and peace because I had loved until the very end, and somehow, my exam schedule no longer seemed so daunting.                             
By Donata Ling
— with Rosa Kim

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