By John Mundell
Misunderstandings,
interruptions, competition, disappointments — and yet this engineer has found a
key. Putting the Gospel into practice changes daily life — even in the
workplace.
Early Monday morning
I left work early last Friday, so
when I returned to the office on Monday I faced a long “to do” list. I threw
myself into the tasks and marked myself on our company computer tracking
“in/out” box (IOB) system as “in” but “DND” (Do Not Disturb). Nevertheless,
after a few minutes, there was a knock at the door, and one staff member
entered and said “Good morning, how was your weekend?” My first thought was,
“Hey, didn’t you see the DND in the IOB?” My second thought was “I don’t have
time for this, I hope she hurries up.” Then, I remembered, “This is my neighbour.
This is Jesus.” We spoke about our weekends and she also talked about her young
son who had been sick which caused her to miss work. In a short time, she asked
about the work load this week and how she could help. When she left my office,
she took two piles of my “to do list” — for me a sure sign of God’s Providence.
Competitors
This week I was in meetings with
several people, including those I would call “competitors” — people who do the
same kind of work we do. I was asked to critique these competitors’ work
product, and provide opinions about the direction of important projects. This
can be a very delicate thing, especially when the competitors are in the same
room! A real human temptation is always to present yourself very well, and show
off your knowledge of the subject, letting your ego take over.
Before each meeting, I said a
little prayer, “You, Lord, are everything. I am nothing.” I listened carefully
to everyone, trying to understand all sides. When I finally spoke, I was able
to highlight the positive things about my competitors work, their organization
of scientific data, and their presentation. After that, I offered some
suggestions that enhanced their work. By the end, we agreed about the direction
of different situations. Later, these competitors called to thank me for the
way I handled the meeting: “We really felt your support and we hope to see you
again in other situations.”
Office cleaning
During the last busy weeks the
office became, as my mother would say, like a pig-sty. Our kitchen was piled
with dishes and left-over containers. No one was making a move to do anything
about it. During lunch one day, when everyone was out, I went into the kitchen
and did all the dishes, scrubbed the counters and sinks, swept the floor,
emptied the refrigerator of “bad containers,” took out the trash.
As people came back from lunch,
there was murmuring about, “Who had cleaned the kitchen?” After a while it
became apparent that I had done it without saying anything. Later that same
day, someone cleaned up the report production room. Some began to clean their
own work areas. Everyone noticed that the atmosphere of the office had changed
… stress levels seemed lower, people were getting along better, and a certain
peace was present among everyone.
A new kind of business dinner
On a recent business trip
overseas, my American colleague and I were invited to a weekend dinner with our
client representative, his wife and four-year-old daughter. Conversation soon turned
to business, culture, politics, sports. The longer the conversation went on,
the less our client’s wife and daughter were involved. I could see that the
mother struggled to occupy her daughter. I had also learned that the couple
both worked full time, and had given up their free weekend night to take us
out.
I began to think about what God
wanted from me in that moment and remembered the Word of Life for the month:
“Remember not the events of the past, the things of long ago consider not. See,
I am doing something new!” (Is 43:18 19). I knew that it was time to stop the
“old” way of doing business, and start something “new.” I asked the little girl
if she knew how to draw any pictures. Soon, we were making all kinds of smiley
faces and letters around our plates on the paper tablecloth. I learned all
about her: what she liked, her favourite animals. I showed her a magic trick.
“Do it again!” she pleaded. Soon she learned the disappearing spoon trick and
showed her mom, and even her dad.
As we continued our fun, her
mother relaxed and joined the conversation with her husband and my friend. The
atmosphere soon changed from a business dinner to a family dinner.” At the end
of the evening, the little girl shook my hand and asked when we would see each
other again. I felt as if I had made a friend for life.
In the taxi I wondered what my
client thought about my supposed lack of attention to him during the dinner,
and whether it seemed unprofessional. However, the following morning at his
office, the first thing he said was, “You won’t believe it. The only thing my
daughter talked about all weekend was you. Thank you for the wonderful time,
we’ll have to do it again.” At that moment I more fully understood the
revolutionary power of the Gospel, and how this new way of doing business
transforms everyone.
Beyond winning
Yesterday I had a meeting with an
attorney who represented someone whose property one of my clients had
contaminated. Instead of using his attorney to meet with their attorney, my
client wanted me (an environmental engineer) to negotiate. He knew that I had
developed a positive relationship with the property owners. As it happened, the
opposing attorney and I also knew each other. He remembered that my company
donates a portion of its profits to the poor. This meeting could have been a
very stressful one: how much does my client owe his client for damages? Who
would win the negotiations?
Before he left, the attorney shared that he had not
visited this building since he ate lunch there with his late father. The
attorney’s eyes welled up. “One week later on a hunting trip to Colorado, he
was lost in a freak snowstorm. I guess you never know what life will present
you with,” he said. I shared an experience about having lunch at the same
restaurant a few years ago with an old friend that came to town for her dad’s
funeral. He had been my godfather and was very close to me. That lunch had
represented a new time in my life as well. In the midst of the busy work day,
we experienced a moment of communion that went beyond business as usual.
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