“I
didn’t want to fall into the cycle of consumerism”
While
preparing for my brother’s wedding, I was having a hard time figuring out what
to wear. My sister-in-law’s family is well-off and was used to expensive
weddings. Ours is a very simple family, and we’re not used to spending that
much money on fancy clothes. Since I studied in another city, during the weeks
before the wedding, my mom would call me and tell me about the stress she and
my sisters were going through trying to find nice but inexpensive dresses. She
was also worried about my dress, since I was planning to go home just a few
days before
the wedding.
the wedding.
I
was a little worried, too. On one hand, I really wanted to dress well that day
to make my brother and sister-in-law’s special day a celebration. On the other
hand, I didn’t want to fall into the cycle of consumerism, spending a lot of
money on a dress I would only use once!
With
some of my friends who also try to live the Gospel, we decided to trust Jesus,
who spoke of the beautiful lilies of the field that receive everything from
God. He also said, “if you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever
you wish, and it will be done for you” (Jn 15:7). For me this meant to stay in
the present, doing whatever I was doing (working, studying, cooking) with the
zeal of doing it for God, without worrying about the outfit. Some of my friends
lent me some dresses to try, but when I arrived home, none of them seemed to be
appropriate for the occasion.
A
couple of days before the wedding, I still didn’t know what to wear. I didn’t
want to go shopping right away: God had promised to listen to our requests, and
I was sure he was going to answer. I just had to trust him. I decided to ask a
friend of mine, even if her clothes do not always fit me. To my surprise, the
dress she gave me was exactly my size. It was beautiful, and since she had used
it for a wedding, she also had the shoes and accessories that matched it! It
was a great witness for my family of how God does take care of us, just like the
lilies of the field. We just have to love and let him work!
— F. M., Argentina
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