I have a
question a little different from others in this Direct Line section. I’d like
to know how to ask the saints a grace for a friend who is fighting against
cancer for years now. As a Christian, I know we can ask for it, but I don’t
have a precise idea how to go about this. I heard that we can also pray to
Blessed Chiara Luce Badano. (B.V.)
Your question
expresses something of great value: the profound relationship of affection that
links you to a friend who’s suffering and which urges you to ask what you can
do for her.
When we love
someone, we want the best for that person, and we wish that they can be freed
as soon as possible from their burden. Often, however, before a painful
situation, like terminal illness, before a suffering and the uncertainty that
accompanies it, we feel more than powerless, and the desire to share and
support seems the only thing left to us.
Thus, the first
grace which I think you have already obtained and which you must continue to
nurture is to be able to live together with your friend this painful moment of
suspense, helping each other to believe in the love of God who is a father and
who surely wants what’s good for your friend.
Since he is a
father who wants us to love each other, he will surely be particularly happy
about your prayer which expresses trust in his love, and he would be even
happier when you ask for it in unity with other friends.
It is God whom
we are asking the grace from! If you want to ask the intercession of some
friends up there in heaven, like Chiara Luce, it is not important to rely on
particular formulas, for you can express it in your own words. However, if you
so desire, you may also visit the site of Chiara Luce (www.chiaraluce.org), where you will also
find some prayers asking for her intercession.
The example of
Chiara Luce can inspire you and your friend to have greater trust in facing
this suspense and the pain of this illness, as she did. I know it is not so
easy, so we wish to assure you and your friend of our prayers too.
Franceso Chatel
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